Model reveals chilling texts sent by jilted ex-boyfriend who told her he would ‘ruin her’

News

A model who was forced into hiding to flee her controlling ex-boyfriend has revealed the chilling texts he sent her detailing a sick revenge plot to financially ‘ruin her’.

Jilted ex Nick Doyle launched a terrifying campaign of harassment in which he repeatedly called and messaged Dagmara Kita, 24, and even knocked on her window as she tried to sleep.

The 30-year-old had been left furious at being dumped by Miss Kita after their four-year relationship turned sour.

Now, in a string of haunting texts, Miss Kita has revealed how Doyle mocked her after he managed to seize control of her IP address and then hacked into her online bank and social media accounts.

In one message, Doyle says: ‘F*** with me and I promise you’ll regret it’ before receiving a text from her bank saying her account had been stripped of thousands of pounds.

In a terrifying campaign of harassment, jilted ex Nick Doyle repeatedly called and messaged Dagmara Kita (pictured), 24, and even knocked on her window as she tried to sleep.

Miss Kita has revealed how Doyle mocked her after he managed to seize control of her IP address and then hacked into her online bank and social media accounts. Doyle, of Middleton near Rochdale, Greater Manchester, was jailed for two years after he admitted harassment

But even as Miss Kita, fearing for her life, attempted to flee to her native Poland she received another message: ‘Right my little petal – I have been able to watch all your s. I have your bank logins and I have your snapchat log ins. Try f*** march mate.’

He added: ‘I’m gonna sink your credit score, I’m gonna debt your teeth out… I’ll drain your bank accounts. Believe me you won’t be able to use your wi-fi without me knowing f*** all.

‘I promise you, swear on my unborn nephew’s life I’m gonna ruin you to the point you won’t go to Poland.’ Afterwards he sent Miss Kita an email from her own account signed off with the words: ‘Much love, c***.’

Doyle was arrested after Miss Kita detailed her experiences to police in which bombarded her with threatening phones calls and trailed her movements by logging into her online accounts. Her bank later refunded the money which was taken from her account.

Today Miss Kita spoke out after Doyle, from Middleton near Rochdale, Greater Manchester, was jailed for two years after he admitted harassment.

Texts from anonymous accounts linked to Doyle show how he threatened Miss Kita following their break up and warned her against fleeing to her native Poland.

Manchester Crown Court heard how Doyle seized control of Miss Kita’s accounts, with one threatening message being sent to herself which showed someone had hacked her email

‘Nick made my life a misery and I’m so glad he was brought to justice, but I feel our legal and justice system needs to change,’ she said.

‘After I reported Nick, police kept me updated but because he was only making threats and hadn’t actually acted on any of them, they said there was nothing they could do, which allowed him to continue his reign of terror. It was terrifying and I lived in constant fear for my life.’

The pair had begun a relationship in 2015 but split in 2019 when an argument about saving for a mortgage led to him punching a hole through a wall in the couple’s rented home.

During an 18-month campaign of terror, Doyle called Miss Kita 61 times in the space of an hour and when she refused to speak to him ahead of a trip to Poland to escape him, Doyle told her: ‘You wanna take the p*** like that, god help you when I get my hands on you tomorrow pal.’

His other abusive texts went on: ‘I am going to do s* to your house and car as you keep ignoring me. I will blast the f* lot of it, do not f*** block me.

‘Answer your phone, this is going to keep happening, you are making the situation worse. There is going to be more drama and you’ll have to change your car, house and job.’

The pair had begun a relationship in 2015 but split in 2019 when an argument about saving for a mortgage led to Doyle punching a hole through a wall in the couple’s rented home.

During an 18-month campaign of terror, Doyle called Miss Kita 61 times in the space of an hour and when she refused to speak to him ahead of a trip to Poland to escape him, Doyle told her: ‘You wanna take the p*** like that, god help you when I get my hands on you tomorrow pal’

Miss Kita said: ‘I was terrified. I’d worked hard to become an area manager at Caffé Nero and didn’t want him to undo all my hard work or tarnish my reputation.

‘But he did turn up at work and told me: “You’ve left me with nothing, so ignore me and I’ll ruin your f life.”

‘I started seeing shadows outside my bedroom window late at night. Then one night as I was drifting off to sleep there was an almighty hammering on the window beside me and it was Nick asking for “one last conversation”. I called the police and Nick was cautioned but it didn’t stop him.

‘Then, my phone began to blow up. I received so many calls and texts that I physically couldn’t use my phone for anything else. The screen was permanently flooded with calls and messages.

Miss Kita said: ‘I was terrified. I’d worked hard to become an area manager at Caffé Nero and didn’t want him to undo all my hard work or tarnish my reputation. ‘But he did turn up at work and told me: “You’ve left me with nothing, so ignore me and I’ll ruin your f life.”‘

‘I blocked Nick’s number and all his social media accounts, but he created one fake page after the next and I couldn’t keep up. He even pretended to be a police officer so that I’d call him.

‘My auntie suggested we fly to my home country and it seemed like the perfect escape but even as I packed my suitcase, my phone started to blow up with private calls.

‘Thankfully I made it to Poland safely, but even then Nick’s abuse continued. Even in a completely different country I felt totally violated by him.

‘Back home, he began stalking me late at night again. He told me: “I know you’re home, I can see your shadow.”

‘One day, I was pottering in the house when I received a string of devastating messages and that’s when I knew Nick had total control of my life.

At sentencing Judge Elizabeth Nicholls told Doyle: ‘There is no doubt that your conduct has had a profound impact on her, as she genuinely believed that her life was threatened and was in constant fear.’ Doyle will be barred from contacting Miss Kita for life under the terms of a restraining order

‘He told me he’d tapped my IP address and had accessed all of my accounts, had all of my bank logins and all my social media login information. He told me he would sink my credit score and drain my bank accounts.

‘I had never felt so trapped or frightened. Then, I received an email from myself which proved Nick had access. He signed off with: “Much love, c***.”

‘The hatred was palpable. The following day my bank called to say my accounts had been cleared of thousands of pounds and had taken me into an overdraft. I was distraught. Nick then said he would destroy my life and I had no reason to doubt him.

‘He’d made good on every single threat so why not this one. I called the police again, and gave them all the evidence I’d compiled since Nick began tormenting me.

‘Finally, he was arrested and bailed on the condition he wouldn’t contact me. But of course, he did.

‘I thought it might be the police, contacting me to explain Nick’s bail conditions. But when I answered, I heard maniacal laughter on the other end of the phone and then Nick said: “I’ve got you now d***head.” I called the police and he was remanded.’

At Manchester Crown Court, Doyle’s lawyer Adam Watkins said: ‘He took the end of the relationship badly and turned to drugs. He says he is ashamed of his actions and wants his victim to recover and lead a happy life.’

But sentencing Judge Elizabeth Nicholls told Doyle: ‘There is no doubt that your conduct has had a profound impact on her, as she genuinely believed that her life was threatened and was in constant fear.’

Doyle will be barred from contacting Miss Kita for life under the terms of a restraining order.

Miss Kita added: ‘I was so relieved that Nick’s reign of terror was over when he was jailed, but I felt incredibly sad too. All I ever wanted was to move on with my life and for Nick to do the same and be happy.

‘But instead he continued to torment me and make my life unbearable. He has made me want to change my physical appearance, move house, change jobs and become anonymous.

‘I feel like I want to leave behind every trace of the person I was when I knew him. He was a monster.’